Sex in exchange for validation

Feminism has created such a toxic environment for the male/female dynamic in society that I believe it’s responsible for the skyrocketing rates in female depression and drug consumption (mostly antidepressants).   (Read my post “A feminist guide to a Successful Marriage” to understand one reason why I believe this statement is true).

The movement is perpetually bombarding women with expectations of ways to be that are quite contrary to the way most women feel about themselves. “You must wear a pantsuit and be a power-house executive at a law firm” seems to be the message most girls get these days. But what if most girls want to have babies and raise a family? What about their needs and aspirations? Has feminism ever celebrated them? Oh wait, they do celebrate moms but only when there is no man in the picture (I swear it won’t be long before there’s a single mom’s ‘pride’ parade).

With this level of insecurity placed in the hearts of girls it’s no surprise women are so eager to sleep with any male that will, in exchange, make them feel validated. “Oh look, I made him cum… this means i’m special right?” Wrong! A man can cum in his own hand and the guy you just blowed probably jerks off every night thinking about your best friend. What would make you special is if you understood the sexual power and responsibility you wield in society and how to use it for good by ensuring that only decent, hard-working and comitted men get access to it. Women are the gate-keepers for future generations because they get to choose which DNA gets right of passage into the future. At least that’s the case in the West where women get to say yes or no to men. Unlike places in the middle east where women are selected by the men like livestock.

Oh Western woman!! If all you do is sleep around with any guy that can form cohesive sentences, or take a pretty picture of you, then you’re just a loose woman and will become a nesting ground for everything that is wrong in society. Not to mention, you will give men absolutely no incentive to better themselves in order to get access to sex. When women are more disciplined about whom they give themselves too, men become better and more enlightened creatures. It’s well established that women can be and are the greatest moderating influences for men. Absent this, everything will go to hell, i promise.

I think the problem is that women have lost their mojo. They would rather be passive and let a man approach them instead of taking the initiative themselves. But I think it’s time for women to be very deliberate about the men they bring into their lives. They should look long and hard at their options and literally go after the best possible suitor (i.e. the man with the best DNA and most likely to be a comitted father to her children). Women seem eager to be benchwarmers in the sex game and not take any initiative to participate. They are so fucking insecure, they think the really good man out in the field would never be interested in her and so they sit back and wait until the first scoundrel asks her out and end up sleeping with him just to make herself feel loved.

It’s a sad state of affairs. And the thing is, even if you weren’t attractive or smart, in today’s sexual climate, a woman could snag almost any good man if she simply chose to devote herself to him. Yes really. If you went up to a really great guy and said “i want to be your house wife, give you children and take care of the you and the kids for the rest of my life” chances are you could snag ANY great man you wanted. I say “great” because i think most men that are willing and eager to be providers are probably pretty great guys. If, on the other hand the man expects you to go out and work and for him to stay home and play video games, that would be a good example of the opposite and a deadbeat. I’m sure there are exceptions, but this entry is short so I’m sticking to general rules of thumb.

So ladies, if you’re the kind of woman that wants a man that devotes himself to you fully and in exchange you are willing to devote yourself to him fully, then guess what: You can get off your ass right now and snatch almost any great and available man you want.

 

Written by soliloquiesonlove.wordpress.com © 2017

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